Comments on: It’s All About Relationships http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/ THINK WELL to FEEL WELL...It's All About Being Emotionally Healthy! Sat, 04 Feb 2012 12:49:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-217 Dr. KC Wed, 14 May 2008 01:11:40 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-217 Dear Ben, I love what you have to say and these are some common phrases that I often use, "Be kind to me and I'll be kind to you times 10." "Make me happy and I'll make you happy times 10." It seems that the happier you make a person, the happier he/she will be and the happier he/she will make you in return. That holds true for any healthy relationship. Thanks for your comment and please keep reading and posting. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear Ben,

I love what you have to say and these are some common phrases that I often use, “Be kind to me and I’ll be kind to you times 10.” “Make me happy and I’ll make you happy times 10.”

It seems that the happier you make a person, the happier he/she will be and the happier he/she will make you in return. That holds true for any healthy relationship.

Thanks for your comment and please keep reading and posting.
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

]]> By: Benny Greenberg http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-213 Benny Greenberg Tue, 13 May 2008 13:19:09 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-213 I think that too many people believe that relationships are all about them and not about the other. More people need to read Emersons Essays on Compensation - once you read it - you will read it 100 times. I enter all relationships - never looking for a thing - if I give - I give because I want to - when I give I give because I want to - I do not look for a thing in return - and thusly - I get more than I ever imagined! Try it - you may love it! Ben I think that too many people believe that relationships are all about them and not about the other. More people need to read Emersons Essays on Compensation - once you read it - you will read it 100 times.

I enter all relationships - never looking for a thing - if I give - I give because I want to - when I give I give because I want to - I do not look for a thing in return - and thusly - I get more than I ever imagined!

Try it - you may love it!

Ben

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-202 Dr. KC Mon, 12 May 2008 15:03:01 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-202 Dear David, I agree with you 100%. Relationships and the way we "run them," meaning the way we treat others and allow others to treat us, do define us and our lives. Thank you for your comment and please keep reading! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear David,

I agree with you 100%. Relationships and the way we “run them,” meaning the way we treat others and allow others to treat us, do define us and our lives.

Thank you for your comment and please keep reading!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-201 Dr. KC Mon, 12 May 2008 15:00:37 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-201 Dear Dr. Nicole, I agree that having all the answers we "need" to move on from a breakup would make things a lot easier for us. However, since many times we don't get the answers we ask for or want, we have to make "alternative arrangements". Being happy and comfortable with who we are as a person should be enough and should be in place before we even begin any relationship. That's why self love, a good self esteem, a sense of independence and knowing who we are, are key to being and remaining emotionally healthy. This holds especially true during low times such as a breakup which can no doubt be devastating. This is when we have to pull strength from anywhere we can find it deep within ourselves. I know this kind of strength is difficult to find when we need it most, but keep looking and searching because it IS there! You are indeed correct when you say that relationships take a lot of flexibility and forgiveness. Any relationship worth having is worth working on to maintain and keep positive. Thank you for your comment and please keep reading and posting! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear Dr. Nicole,

I agree that having all the answers we “need” to move on from a breakup would make things a lot easier for us. However, since many times we don’t get the answers we ask for or want, we have to make “alternative arrangements”.

Being happy and comfortable with who we are as a person should be enough and should be in place before we even begin any relationship. That’s why self love, a good self esteem, a sense of independence and knowing who we are, are key to being and remaining emotionally healthy. This holds especially true during low times such as a breakup which can no doubt be devastating. This is when we have to pull strength from anywhere we can find it deep within ourselves. I know this kind of strength is difficult to find when we need it most, but keep looking and searching because it IS there!

You are indeed correct when you say that relationships take a lot of flexibility and forgiveness. Any relationship worth having is worth working on to maintain and keep positive.

Thank you for your comment and please keep reading and posting!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

]]> By: David Tamayo http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-199 David Tamayo Mon, 12 May 2008 12:55:08 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-199 I really enjoyed this post. Our relationships help define our individual universes and ultimately our lives. Very good and by the response very helpful indeed. Great site! I really enjoyed this post. Our relationships help define our individual universes and ultimately our lives. Very good and by the response very helpful indeed. Great site!

]]> By: Dr. Nicole Sundene http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-197 Dr. Nicole Sundene Mon, 12 May 2008 04:07:13 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-197 I think it is important to understand what purpose the person you are breaking up with served in your life so that you can grow from the situation. Having long term relationships with anyone in life means practicing lot's of forgiveness and learning to be extremely flexible. Not everyone can be everything for every person, but they can be something. Just because someone was once very special to you doesn't mean they no longer have to be. This kind of thinking helps me when ending any kind of relationship whether business, or personal, in order to create the best possible positive outcome. I think it is important to understand what purpose the person you are breaking up with served in your life so that you can grow from the situation. Having long term relationships with anyone in life means practicing lot’s of forgiveness and learning to be extremely flexible. Not everyone can be everything for every person, but they can be something. Just because someone was once very special to you doesn’t mean they no longer have to be. This kind of thinking helps me when ending any kind of relationship whether business, or personal, in order to create the best possible positive outcome.

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-196 Dr. KC Mon, 12 May 2008 03:30:18 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-196 Dear Jack, To the contrary, you did indeed have a lot to offer this discussion! You have shared hope that love can last for 50 years and even beyond that! You have given many who have and will read this comment, optimism and possibility for the kind of love that you have been so blessed to have! That love will never diminish and the best part is that you know it and appreciate it! Thank you so much for your comment and I hope you will continue to read and share your thoughts. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear Jack,

To the contrary, you did indeed have a lot to offer this discussion! You have shared hope that love can last for 50 years and even beyond that! You have given many who have and will read this comment, optimism and possibility for the kind of love that you have been so blessed to have! That love will never diminish and the best part is that you know it and appreciate it!

Thank you so much for your comment and I hope you will continue to read and share your thoughts.

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-195 Dr. KC Mon, 12 May 2008 03:20:53 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-195 Dear Sandy, Thank you so much for your sweet comment. Unfortunately, I cannot give out my secrets as I have been sworn to keep someone’s confidence. :) I'm glad you found me here. Please keep reading and sending your comments. Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear Sandy,

Thank you so much for your sweet comment.
Unfortunately, I cannot give out my secrets as I have been sworn to keep someone’s confidence. :)

I’m glad you found me here. Please keep reading and sending your comments.
Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-194 Dr. KC Mon, 12 May 2008 03:17:33 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-194 Dear Glen, You are correct. I have seen many couples who have taken each other for granted for years, only to regret doing so once the relationship was over, due to choice or death. It is true that you don't know what you have until it is gone, and I think that might sum up your point here. Very great insight you have given! Thank you so much for your comment and please keep reading! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear Glen,

You are correct. I have seen many couples who have taken each other for granted for years, only to regret doing so once the relationship was over, due to choice or death. It is true that you don’t know what you have until it is gone, and I think that might sum up your point here. Very great insight you have given!

Thank you so much for your comment and please keep reading!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

]]> By: Dr. KC http://docinthebiz.com/blog/its-all-about-relationships/#comment-193 Dr. KC Mon, 12 May 2008 03:12:41 +0000 http://docinthebiz.com/blog/?p=47#comment-193 Dear J.D. Meier, You bring up a very interesting point about people liking those who are like they are. Opposites can attract, for sure; however, perhaps they have to be two very compromising people. And this holds true for both personal and work related relationships, if the two people are to get along. If two people in any kind of relationship are working towards the same goal, they do not have to necessarily think alike, but need to respect the qualities that they do not share with their partner and support the other's goals despite. Two people in a relationship need to be on similar paths, but I find it healthy for them to each have their own individual goals to reach as well. The key of course, is knowing who you are, what you are about, and loving yourself. It has been noted that it is very difficult to love someone unless you love yourself first. I completely agree with that point you brought up. If you are working on a specific goal, at work for instance, I think that like minded people would probably get the job done more quickly; however, never underestimate different mindsets as this may lead to a very innovative and creative outcome to an assignment. Thank you so much for your comment and please keep reading! Dr. KC www.DOCintheBiz.com Dear J.D. Meier,

You bring up a very interesting point about people liking those who are like they are.

Opposites can attract, for sure; however, perhaps they have to be two very compromising people. And this holds true for both personal and work related relationships, if the two people are to get along.

If two people in any kind of relationship are working towards the same goal, they do not have to necessarily think alike, but need to respect the qualities that they do not share with their partner and support the other’s goals despite. Two people in a relationship need to be on similar paths, but I find it healthy for them to each have their own individual goals to reach as well.

The key of course, is knowing who you are, what you are about, and loving yourself. It has been noted that it is very difficult to love someone unless you love yourself first. I completely agree with that point you brought up.

If you are working on a specific goal, at work for instance, I think that like minded people would probably get the job done more quickly; however, never underestimate different mindsets as this may lead to a very innovative and creative outcome to an assignment.

Thank you so much for your comment and please keep reading!

Dr. KC
http://www.DOCintheBiz.com

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